"Getting Played..."

By: FAITHY Mood: irritated Date: 03/22/2008 12:37:55 Music: None

I've been an active, paying member of this site for many years and have been most fortunate to meet some great people and make some super new friends.  I support and very much appreciate all that Mark and Tony have put into developing a place where we can meet and share stories, thoughts, needs and skills.

I've advertised in the Classified Section here from the beginning with some super results.  As a personal fitness trainer, fitness author, and Instructor trainer in the military, law enforcement and as a civilian I believe I have a great deal to offer my fellow members.

In many cases members here have requested guidence and advice on fitness needs/goals.  I have NEVER charged a fee for this unless the individual was seeking specific fitness training/nutritional training in an intense personalized program.  In that case (per by ad), we agree on goals, program description, fees and everything else in advance.

In a couple situations I have provided this service pro bono to fellow members who really needed this help but just could not afford to pay me.  I believe in karma (both good & bad) and hope these same people will someday be in a position to help someone else.

Recently however, I have been "ripped off" by two (2) members.  Both were in immediate need of assistance to meet fitness requirements within their professions or not progress and/or qualify for a special unit within their organization.

One was going to be released from their State's Army National Guard after over 12 years of "full-time" Guard employment.  This female was going to be seperated (ETS 01 April '08) for continued failure to meet weight/body fat requirements.  Guess what?  We worked together daily and she was retained & just re-enlisted!!!

In both cases fees were agreed upon (via this site), and I immediately initiated the fitness and nutritional training with payment to follow within a short specified time.  I provided DAILY personalized goal specific training guidence and review, and personalized eating programs to both members.

This went on for weeks with no effort on their parts to keep their end of the agreement...

Anyway, now I've vented. As for everyone else out there, I am always willing to share my education, skills, and experience with you AT NO CHARGE.  Have a Happy Holiday!

Dennis (MS, CFT, PT, FT), Certified; NFPT, NASM, ACSM, ISSA Instructor Mentor / Member; NSCA, NCAA, ESCS